While bullying has been going on since the beginning of time, pop stars like Lady Gagaand Demi Lovato have made it their mission to stop it once and for all — and not just because they feel bad for the victims, but because they themselves were at the receiving end of harsh comments and actions.
With the new documentary ‘Bully’ hitting theaters this weekend, it’s an appropriate time to hear firsthand accounts of bullying from celebrities like Gaga, Eminem, Selena Gomez, Madonna, Taylor Swift and more
“It didn’t sink in with me how bullying affected me until later in my life. I knew that it affected me deeply but it wasn’t until a little bit later that I realized how much it affected me and how much it was still very present… I think it took me to get to know my fans and to see similar struggles in them to access that wound in myself.” – Lady Gaga
“I asked to leave public school… I had a hate wall in the bathroom, and everyone signed a petition that said ‘We all hate Demi Lovato.’” – Demi Lovato
“But you know what? Suffering bullying means that you are special and that’s what I want all children to know. My song ‘Who’s Laughing Now’ was important to me and I heard people saying that music helped to talk about bullying and get help. I kept every letter I have received since the beginning of my career and made a book so I can read them in 10 years time.” – Jessie J
“It definitely taught me to be quick on my feet with witty comebacks… I remember one time someone screamed ‘fag’ at me in the hallway, and I screamed back, ‘Yeah, but can you spell it?’ Everyone in the hallway laughed at the other kid; it was nice to reverse the abuse.”
“The emotions that [my 'Glee' character Kurt Hummel] goes through are very real. I’ve personally gone through all of those.” – Chris Colfer
“There are two ways you can [deal] with it if you are bullied. You can let it destroy you, or you can use it as fuel to drive you: to dream bigger, work harder. I wasn’t invited to parties and I look back now and I’m so thankful that I was at home playing guitar until my fingers bled.” – Taylor Swift
“They would look at me and would curse me out. I didn’t understand. I just knew I saw people of all different shades and I was light. Now I’m in a much bigger world.” – Rihanna
“I’ve had a lot of experience with not being liked and all that. I think if I hadn’t had to deal with that in the past then I totally would have handled this differently and I would have gone down in burning flames. But I’ve learned that you just can’t let it get to you.”
“For anyone who’s been bullied or is being bullied right now, I’ve been there, and I know how they feel. It really sucks being bullied … One thing you can’t do is let them stop you from doing what you wanna do.” – Rebecca Black
“School is such an awkward time in your life. I was never confident in school… I was definitely made fun of for being in the [entertainment] industry.” – Selena Gomez
“I felt like I was being attacked, I was being singled out. And I felt like, is it because of the color of my skin? … There was certainly like a rebellious, like, youthful rage in me. And there was also… no getting away from [the] fact that I am white and you know this is predominantly black music. And people telling me ‘You don’t belong, like you’re not going to succeed because you are this color.’ Then you wanna show those people that you can and you will.” – Eminem
“It wasn’t until my ballet teacher, who was gay, took me under his wing and introduced me to a community of artists of other unique individuals who told me it was good and okay to be different.”
“I think it would be interesting for everybody to try to get through the day… without gossiping about somebody… Not even listening to gossip… Can you imagine what your day would be like?” – Madonna
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